How to Turn Your Man On? (Part 2)

How to turn your man on? Yesterday, we focused on what men expect from women and how to get their attention. Today, we'll try to explain what gets men's blood pumping and what causes a swelling between their legs.

 

Men aren't aroused only by lesbian scenes and naked women ... Arousal is all about the psychological effect.

 
We are not only turned on by pictures of naked women, or scantily dressed beauties. We are not turned on by moaning and "dirty" talking, or lesbian scenes. We are aroused by the thought of touching, smelling, hearing, making out, putting it in and squirting. We are interested in the promise of action.

That's why you cannot turn a man on without him knowing he can get you, although not right away. We are driven by our own desires and expectations.

Being touched in the crowd by an attractive woman will make a man's heart beat fast.

 

Try watching a silent porn film and you will see the erotic tension diminish. Then watch a porn film with several friends. It will turn into a series of stupid comments and pleasant fun, but not a sexual experience. Watch a film where a hundred naked people are running. In no way is that an erotic experience. On the other hand, being touched by an attractive young woman on the bus can cause a long erection. The scent of freshly washed hair. Laughter. There are many triggers. But it's all about a psychological effect, and that's what women should strive for if you want to turn a man on.

 
You have to make him want to have sex and you have to offer yourself as the object of his desire. Make him think you are the one he wants. You do this by showing him just enough so that he cannot be uninterested, while at the same time you keep your distance, so that his wishes don't come true too soon. You can drive a man crazy and cause him painful erections with such games. We always fall for such tricks.

Show him you're available and don't play hard to get, but still make him crave for you by keeping your distance. (jlp)

 

Let's put the situation into a concrete setting: a nightclub, a dance floor. You want the man to notice you. Start with a look, one serious, deep, meaningful look. Don't play shy and don't toy with him by averting your eyes.

In a while, when he has all but forgotten your look, touch him on the dance floor as if by mistake. Touch his skin, don't look at him. Give him a chance to smell you, allow for his senses to start working, let his body remember you.

Wait for him to come to you. If he's not a man of action, take him on the dance floor yourself without saying a word. Don't wiggle about too much, don't show all your skills. Be sensual, look for a soft caress, for his skin, his fingers, his neck, gently rub against him with the inner side of your thighs, let him feel your pubic bone ...

If you don't feel a rock-hard erection, then there's no helping the guy. He's gay. Tough luck.

 

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